She's So Much Happier Now: A Story of Professional Freedom

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On my flight home from a locums assignment, I had the unexpected pleasure of sitting next to a 35-year military veteran, a man whose life was deeply woven with threads of duty, discipline, and service. As we soared through the clouds, our conversation drifted beyond standard pleasantries into more profound topics that resonated deeply with both of us. Somewhere between tales of military operations and the relentless commitment required in his line of work, the veteran shared an inspiring story about his wife.

She is a physician assistant based in Oklahoma who embarked on her own challenging yet rewarding journey. This narrative stuck with me long after our plane touched down. His wife’s story was not just about her professional accomplishments but also about resilience and determination in the face of significant change. It vividly illustrated how many clinicians navigate the complex transition from being employed within established healthcare systems to embracing professional independence.

The tale unfolded like an epic saga: initially filled with uncertainty and anxiety as she contemplated leaving behind the security and familiarity of her job for uncharted territories where she could practice more autonomously. Yet, it was also a story filled with triumphs—of finding empowerment in autonomy and rediscovering passion for her work without institutional constraints.

Listening to this account made me realize how crucial it is for clinicians to seek environments where they can thrive independently while still delivering exceptional care. It underscored the importance of fostering a medical culture that supports such transitions by providing resources, mentorship, and encouragement to those brave enough to take this leap toward self-sufficiency. This conversation wasn’t merely anecdotal; it served as compelling evidence that transitioning towards professional independence can be life-changing—inspiring other medical professionals contemplating similar paths to pursue their dreams despite inherent challenges.

The Struggles of Employment

His wife began her career in a hospital-owned family medicine clinic, full of ambition and ready to care for her patients. But over the years, the pressures of employment took their toll. Maybe you can relate to some of these challenges:

  • Downsizing of clinic networks leading to job insecurity

  • Chronic understaffing, making it difficult to provide quality care

  • An inefficient EHR system that felt more like a burden than a tool

  • Increasing patient loads, leaving less and less time for meaningful visits

  • A pay cut despite working harder than ever

  • A growing feeling of being undervalued and replaceable

She had dedicated a decade of her life to that system, but it became clear that the hospital’s priorities were shifting further away from patient care and clinician well-being. Then, she made a move that changed her life forever.

A Strategic Real Estate Play Turns Into Freedom

Toward the end of her time at the hospital, she noticed something interesting—the clinic was operating out of a leased fraternal organization building. Seeing an opportunity, she purchased the building herself, reasoning that real estate income would be a solid long-term investment.

The hospital didn’t appreciate the move and, in a stunning turn of events, fired her over it.

She could have seen this as a crushing setback. Instead, it became the greatest blessing in disguise. With no job but a building of her own, she started asking, “What’s next?”

The Shift to Independence

Instead of scrambling to find another employed position, she saw an opportunity. She partnered with a local family physician for collaboration and launched her own concierge primary care practice—free from the constraints of insurance companies, hospital mandates, and never-ending administrative burden.

She set her panel at a manageable 500 patients, ensuring she had the time to practice medicine the way she always dreamed of—focusing on relationships and truly caring for her patients. And the impact on her personal life? Dramatic.

Her husband beamed as he told me, “She’s so much happier now.”

More Than Just a Business—A New Way of Life

The best part? Her new model allowed her to operate in ways traditional medicine never could. Her husband raved about the benefits of this newfound professional autonomy, from financial security to creative bartering arrangements with patients and neighbors:

  • Farm-fresh eggs in the fridge from patients who appreciate her care.

  • A farrier for their horses who provides his services in exchange for medical advice.

  • A neighbor with a private airstrip who maintains the land in appreciation of her services.

This shift in her career path wasn't merely a job change; it was a profound transformation of her entire lifestyle. She embarked on a journey to practice medicine on her own terms, and the positive impact was evident in every facet of her life, radiating newfound energy and satisfaction. The days of being an overworked, underappreciated employee were firmly behind her. In their place stood a flourishing, self-reliant clinician who had seized control of her own destiny with unwavering confidence. Her autonomy allowed her to focus on patient care without the stifling constraints that had previously dictated her work life, resulting in not only professional fulfillment but also personal growth and happiness.

Could This Be Your Future?

If you’ve been feeling the weight of employment, I want you to ask yourself: What’s stopping you from making a change?

You don’t have to keep grinding under the constraints of a hospital system that doesn’t value you. You can take control of your career, just like she did. And you don’t have to do it alone.

At SimpliMD, we specialize in helping clinicians transition from employment to independent practice, whether that’s through concierge medicine, direct primary care, telehealth, or a micro-corporation that fits your vision.

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Don’t wait for your breaking point. Take control of your career now and rediscover the joy of practicing medicine on your terms.

I’d love to hear from you—what’s holding you back from making the shift? Reach out to discuss your next step toward professional freedom.

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